Do you find yourself continuing to attract someone who breaks your heart? Or, if you're coupled, do you find yourself getting in the same painful argument over and over again?
This is the definition of insanity, right? Doing the same thing expecting to get different results.
It doesn't have to be this way.
You can actually open up to a juicy love life if you gain some understanding.
Many of you have been in an uncomfortable relationship and probably thought, "Well, this is good enough." I'm here to tell you that it doesn't have to be just good enough. It can be breathtakingly exciting and fulfilling.
Some people have been in negative, emotionally absent or even abusive relationships and actually felt a certain comfort level because it was familiar.
To some, love means negativity, being ignored, or worse, being abused.
It sounds crazy, but this is the truth. You think, well, why would anyone think that love is any of those things?
Because you have been in a family relationship or intimate relationship with someone hoping that tomorrow will be better. Tomorrow they will treat you with more respect, tomorrow they will give you attention, or tomorrow they will ask for forgiveness and never abuse you again.
Hope keeps abuse alive. Understanding that it is abuse will allow you to move away from it and begin to use healthy tools of living and loving.
Your nervous system is designed to remember and anchor experiences in your mind. If you believe that love means pain, then you will build a highly developed nervous system that believes that to be true.
The nervous system becomes so strong and set that it's hard to change that belief.
But, that belief can be changed and you can create a stronger nervous and belief system that tells you that it's wrong.
You can also train your nervous system to believe the truth, that love means joy and pleasure.
It takes time and practice, but eventually you can move into a joyous space where love can rest and your positive nervous system can grow and become strong and thick.
I invite you to join me today to learn more!
P.S. Isn't it time for you to have the best love life right now? You literally can create your life the way you want it to be. And, it starts right here.